diff --git a/jarvis/cogs/remindme.py b/jarvis/cogs/remindme.py
index b4f3ff8..fb6044f 100644
--- a/jarvis/cogs/remindme.py
+++ b/jarvis/cogs/remindme.py
@@ -318,7 +318,7 @@ class RemindmeCog(Scale):
     async def _fetch(self, ctx: InteractionContext, id: str) -> None:
         reminder = await Reminder.find_one(q(id=id))
         if not reminder:
-            await ctx.send(f"Reminder {id} does not exist")
+            await ctx.send(f"Reminder `{id}` does not exist", hidden=True)
             return
 
         embed = build_embed(title="You have a reminder!", description=reminder.message, fields=[])
@@ -329,6 +329,11 @@ class RemindmeCog(Scale):
 
         embed.set_thumbnail(url=ctx.author.display_avatar)
         await ctx.send(embed=embed, ephemeral=reminder.private)
+        if reminder.remind_at <= datetime.now(tz=timezone.utc):
+            try:
+                await reminder.delete()
+            except Exception:
+                pass  # Silently drop error
 
 
 def setup(bot: Snake) -> None: